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Sunday, August 12, 2007

How To Increase Your Level Of Relationship Mastery

People have asked "What is Relationship Mastery and why do I have to increase my level of Relationship Mastery and Consciousness.
Relationship Mastery refers to the mindset as well as the tools and skills that a person develops to be able to relate to another in a Relationship. These include abilities and acquired talents such as communication, conflict resolution techniques and what we call the 7 Principles of Relationship Success.
Relationship mastery may also be needed to help a gap incompatibility come closer together. So even if you find you and your partner have some issues around compatibility but still want to stay together a greater Relationship Consciousness and Mastery will help create a good Relationship.
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Another important factor about relationship mastery is each partner's willingness to learn relationship mastery skills.If some one or both partners are not keen on learning and training that will impede ones success, however one partner can do significant evolution that will impact the Relationship for both.
If a couple has low compatibility and poor relationship mastery skills then their relationship will have high levels of toxicity and deficiencies. A Relationship Toxicity is a bad love habit. A Relationship Deficiency is lack of a relationship skill, mindset or attitude.
A deficiency is also a need or want that you are not getting in a relationship.
So a partner cause of their Relationship Deficiency can create a deficiency for their partner. For example if your partner is a poor communicator and lacks support skills you will feel empty and deficient cause you are craving emotional support , communication and validation.
The farther apart in compatibilities and relationship mastery, the lower the chances of a couple having a successful, fulfilling relationship where one can be a full expression of oneself.
Therefore at the center we also believe that a square peg doesn't need to be forced into a round hole. This is because we have a different paradigm than most of society.
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We teach and believe that there is an abundant universe and everyone can, and will find someone that is highest and best for them. It' s a matter of becoming clear and use laws of attraction to draw what best for you in.
You do not have to settle out of fear of never finding anyone, societal pressures or fear of hurting their present partner.
In regards to hurting your present partner, if you are not with your highest and partner you will cause more hurt to your partner as well as yourself because of the continuous build up of toxicities and deficiencies. As well, you will both block each others from being full expressions of oneself. This blockage effects all areas of your life including health, wealth, and your dharmic path.
For example in my first marriage to Travis, we were teenage sweethearts, then got married in our early 20s. We were not compatible in many areas and because we has low relationship mastery skills, for 6 years we lived in quiet desperation,neither one of us understanding just how unfulfilled our relationship and our lives were.
The energetics of this situation impacted many other areas of our lives as well.
We had dead end jobs that seemed to us that we couldn't escape, we had constant financial problems, sex problems,and we kept putting off having children because we felt like we wouldn't be able to provide for them.
Travis became addicted to video games and started smoking pot. I was very lonely and empty because Travis had different value center than I. Travis was friend and family centered meaning that he likes to focus his energy and time on friends and his relatives. I was relationship centered,meaning that I would rather spend one on one time with Travis.
We also had different communication modes, so I didn't receive love from him in my communication modes, even though he would be trying to give love to me through his communication modes.
When I finally came into consciousness that we were not in our highest and best relationship with one another and that the relationship mastery wouldn't be enough to close the gaps in our incompatibility, I was still really hesitant about leaving him/and or telling him.
He was at a particularly low point in his life and was suffering from low self esteem. I was afraid that I would really hurt him, kicking him while he was down and I was afraid that he wouldn't be able to recover.
Well, he was upset of course at first. However, he was able to recover. Today, he is remarried, now to his soul mate, he has renovated his home, he has a new high paying job, is out of financial debt and I bet I'll be hearing any time now that he'll be having a little family.
For me, I was able to find my dharma (which I never thought I was ever going to find) which happened literally because of leaving Travis, and I have found my highest and best relationship and soul mate.
Had I not made the decision to allow both Travis and I to let go and find our highest and best relationship, we would have been blocking each other from our dharma and our soul mates from entering into our lives.
So in any relationship there are three decisions to make,once you are aware of where you stand in regards to compatibility and relationship mastery in your relationship.
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