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| Thirteen Romantic Ideas for the Holidays
The holiday season is already on top of us and, I don't know where you're at, but in my neck of the woods it's cuddling and snuggling weather already! Here are some suggestions for getting closer to your lover this holiday season:
- Hang your stockings by the chimney with care and fill your lover's full of kisses and maybe a bottle of scented massage oil :-)
- Schedule a special time for an intimate gift exchange. With three kids and a Christmas birthday, my husband and I don't always have a lot of money to spend on gifts for one another. Even a simple, personal coupon book can be a appreciated gift that gives all year long.
- Bundle up, fill a thermos full of hot chocolate, and take a walk through your local downtown or a quiet neighborhood with plenty of decorations. Hold hands and enjoy the nostalgia of Christmas lights.
- Trim the tree together. In my house, decorating can be stressful. Don't let it get the best of you. Put on your favorite Christmas music and take advantage of how close you can get stringing lights!
- Plan a private Christmas party. Spending time with friends and family can leave you almost too tired for one another! Check out our party supplies and set aside a time for your own party, just the two of you.
- Dress properly for your private holiday celebration. Try a slinky dress or even a sexy Santa babe costume to keep things warm. Guys, put on her favorite shirt--the one she says brings out your eyes--and leave the sweat pants in the closet!
- Hang the mistletoe! Put a sprig in a place the two of you have to pass underneath at least a few times a day.
- Surprise your lover with little gifts all month long. Sneak a few Christmas cookies into his briefcase or wrap some lingerie in a tiny box and slip it into her purse before work. Check back next week for the 12 Romantic Days of Christmas Plus 1!
- Turn down the lights, turn on the tree, pour some eggnog, and cuddle on the couch with the best holiday movies. Lifetime Movies has some classics, as well as a few new ones, that you both may enjoy!
- Find out if you've been naughty or nice when you take the holiday cheer to the bedroom. Play a sex game to help you both ease the stress of this time of year.
- Play in the snow. If you're like me and live in an area where it may not snow this winter, plan a drive to a ski slope if possible. Have a snowball fight, act like teeenagers in love, and enjoy some quality time together trying to get warm :-)
- Help someone together. The holidays are a great time to share with those less fortunate. Select a cause together this year. Volunteer at a local shelter, buy a gift for a child through a local program, or organize a food drive together.
- Go Christmas shopping together and pretend you're newlyweds. See if you can get anyone to ask if you were just married!
Feel free to share your romantic holiday traditions in the comments! |
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8 Comments:
At November 29, 2007 8:59 AM , MommyBa said...
These are really cool and innovative ideas. :) Maybe I can try some of 'em :)
Happy Thursday
At November 29, 2007 1:54 PM , damozel said...
Do people really do those things? Do they not have children, neighbors, fear of the other one saying, "And you are buying these little daily gifts with WHAT money?" I can see these working if you're still the age when you want your life to look like a film or at least a high end sitcom. ....
At November 29, 2007 4:28 PM , Danielle said...
Maybe that's the reason divorce rates are so high, Damozel :-)
There are babysitters (which I haven't had in over a year) and early bedtimes(something I make use of often)
Gifts don't have to be expensive. A little note promising a massage before bed doesn't cost a dime :-)
And if money is an issue, there are plenty of couples who could sacrifice that morning latte or give up the office lunch to make their special someone feel appreciated.
When marriages become marriages and lose that romantic spark, there are usually problems soon after.
Maybe guys don't need that sappy stuff, but the girls they're trying to hold on to do ;-) (And most guys tend to appreciate the results)
At November 29, 2007 6:02 PM , Shoshana said...
What cool ideas! What's with newly weds anyways? You can always spot them a mile away...most of them.
At November 29, 2007 6:43 PM , Smiler said...
You've inspired me to do a "ideas for spending Christmas post-breakup" or just "as a single person". Not that there's anything wrong with the ones you've suggested. It's just some of us aren't so very lucky in love.
At November 30, 2007 2:59 PM , SusieJ said...
What a great list! My husband is such a romantic. And we have very little time to ourselves.
At November 30, 2007 10:35 PM , Nicholas said...
My wife is a wonderful woman but I don't think that even she would want to see me in a sexy Santa costume!
At November 30, 2007 11:49 PM , Michael G Schurmann said...
Nicholas,
the qustion is :would you not enjoy seeing your wife in a sexy santa suit?
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